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shybigsub9 Profile Information

Need to please and be controlled
Age 47 From Fredericksburg, Virginia - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman (Sub) Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
Not a hookup or into married men

I am not only submissive in the bedroom, but also enjoy serving and pleasing a Dominant outside of the bedroom. I enjoy taking care of Him including house chores, bathing, cooking, and waiting on Him. I can also maybe help with business and secretarial duties, should those be needed. I also want to be His friend, and have a relationship as much as a dynamic. I hope to learn who you are, enjoy your hobbies with you, and adventure into sexual pleasures that expand our senses.

Trust and respect are earned before submission and obedience are given.

I am an all natural, heterosexual woman. I don’t color my hair, I don’t have fake nails, and don’t wear a lot of makeup. All of those things are negotiable, if they are important to you. I am low maintenance, easy to please, and the valuable resources I need from a Dominant are his time and his touch.

I am looking for a long-term relationship, within a reasonable driving distance. Preferably under 90 minutes each way. I am not interested in one-night stands, hookups, sessions, scenes, casual sex, or any form of short-term relationship.

I'm looking for a Dom who I can serve with pleasure and be cared for in return. PE with the possibility to TPE. I'm an obese woman and willing to work on being who you envision, but must be patient and accepting of who I am currently.

My ideal relationship with a Dominant is to start a long-term relationship, living close by but not living together; monogamous; no married men. As our relationship builds, we can work toward staying one night a week at each other’s places and build up from there, but he must be patient with me learning how to share my space. Although I may be submissive, I’m independent. I want to work toward a TPE, but that will take time, trust, patience, and training.
Sign  
Sagittarius

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Heavyset
My Height Is  
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Never Married
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is  
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Cat
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is  
Analyst
I Make This Much In A Year  
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live  
With Roomate(s)
At Home  
It Gets A Bit Crazy Sometimes
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - One Or Two

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Brain
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Dining, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Camping, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Have a man talk me through cooking his dinner so that we both learn how he likes to train, his patience if mistakes are made, and how well I can learn. Once "we" are done cooking, eating a quiet meal outside on a deck/patio and discuss what expectations were met or not met during cooking...then maybe if things go well...he can ask me over again for a second date ;-)
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Going to a BDSM club.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Agnostic
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
To make the people I love happy, including myself, of course!
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, Reality Shows, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Blues, New age, Ambient, Dance, Gospel, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read  
Biography, Business, Classic, Computers, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Romance, Erotica
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Anything you desire....but i prefer movies, dancing, music, and books.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Power, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
I am looking for other submissive friends and Dom who understand the lifestyle I enjoy living and respect the bounds agreed upon.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Domination, Just Wanna Fuck
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